by Linda D.
Bartlett
It is nearly 7:00 p.m. on Saturday evening. Hours at Luther Clinic
are 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. on Saturdays, but chairs in the waiting
room were filled all day. It is the clinic’s policy that no patient
will be turned away. Most of the patients at Luther Clinic are
women. Today was no exception. Some of them called ahead for
appointments, but many came unexpectedly and out of fear.
The clinic is the partnership of two doctors, Luther and Brunkamp.
Their skills compliment one another to help meet the needs of their
patients. It is customary for Dr. Brunkamp to see the patients
first. She asks the reason for the visit and listens to any concerns
before performing a physical exam. Then, because Luther Clinic is
free of federal funds and political correctness, she sends the
patient on to the office of her colleague, Dr. Luther.
Dr. Luther has studied under the Great Physician. The Word of that
Physician taught Dr. Luther to understand how sin can result in
life-altering or even life-threatening consequences. For this
reason, Dr. Luther is careful to connect the physical, emotional,
and spiritual entities of men and women in a way that honors their
created design. He has a reputation for sharing information many
people have never heard.
The first patient on this Saturday was a college freshman exhibiting
signs of severe depression. "Are you in a relationship?" asked Dr.
Brunkamp. "No, I’m not," the girl responded, "but, I have a ‘friend
with benefits.’" There was a pause before the girl continued. "I’m a
little confused. I really like this guy and he seems to like me, but
when I suggest we go to a movie together or meet some other friends
for a day at the mall, he says that would be a relationship and he’s
not ready for that. This is why I’m so confused. I don’t really have
a friend, but he’s sure enjoying the ‘benefits.’"
The day stretched long for Dr. Brunkamp. Three of her patients were
girls in high school. One, 13, tested positive for herpes and one,
17, for the human papillomavirus (HPV). Neither considered
themselves to be sexually active. The third girl, 16, was pregnant.
Several of the patients were older women. Kate, at 30, had just
suffered her third miscarriage. Ann, at 43, was having trouble
conceiving. Kate and Ann spoke of multiple partners before marriage
and their private battles with Chlamydia. Did they know that this
sexually transmitted disease scars tissue which can result in
ectopic pregnancies and fertility problems? Laura, at 50, spoke of
her successful career but expressed a deep sense of emptiness in her
unmarried and childless state. She confessed to having had two
abortions. "I now believe, doctor, that they may be my only
children. How do I deal with this?"
By the end of the day, Dr. Luther found his colleague more weary
than usual. "I’m so frustrated!" Dr. Brunkamp told him. "These women
all had such promising futures. By the time I see them, they’re
physically scarred and emotionally wounded."
She paused with a heavy sigh. "I would give anything to be able to
get to these women earlier, to tell them what Planned Parenthood and
politically correct sex education refuses to tell them. The truth
is, a woman’s anatomy makes her more vulnerable to infection! Men
and women are not the same! A woman is not crazy to long for a
faithful marriage, home, and family! I want to run through every
high school and college campus screaming: Wait! Just wait—for any
kind of sexual intimacy—until marriage! Wait for someone who has
waited for you! You don’t have to worry about HIV or HPV! You will
survive!" Please, Dr. Luther, tell me there’s some hope! Tell me
that what we do here is making a difference!"
"My dear colleague," smiled Dr. Luther, "Jesus Christ makes all the
difference. That’s why we use His Word at this clinic. Listen up!
Here’s what I tell our patients. We are all in the midst of a battle
between God who loves us and the devil who despises us. God’s very
design of male and female preserves the human species. But, Satan,
who can only distort God’s perfect design, would have us all dead."
"Well," interrupted Dr. Brunkamp, "Satan must be very pleased with
himself. He may not be killing these women, but he’s leaving them
physically scarred and emotionally dysfunctional."
"Ah," continued Dr. Luther, "the devil targets men and women where
they are most vulnerable. Remember your patients Kate, Ann, and
Laura from this afternoon? They all confessed to procreational acts
outside of marriage; Laura confessed two abortions, but all mourned
children they did not have. The world may view children as
burdensome, but perhaps these women understood the truth: children
are of great value! That makes motherhood a noble and high calling.
We can help women see motherhood as the vocation it is. Personally,
I am both delighted and awed by motherhood! You know as well as I,
Dr. Brunkamp, how a woman’s body is adapted and formed for the care
of infants. It amazes me to watch mothers comfort their little ones.
Ha! Let a man try to do the same and he may act like a dancing
camel, awkward and silly."
Dr. Brunkamp looked puzzled. "You surprise me, Dr. Luther. You
always speak highly of men and their role."
"Oh!" exclaimed Dr. Luther, "Yes I do! Everyone does best when he—or
she—does those things for which he—or she—was created. The female
gender is merciful by nature because it is born to show mercy and to
cherish—just as a man is born to protect! Consider the patient you
saw this morning, the girl who told you she had a ‘friend with
benefits.’ Did she come to our door, troubled and confused . . .
only after she believed the world’s lies? Did a man fail to protect
her—indeed, love her with the unselfish love of Christ? You should
have seen her expression when I told her she didn’t have to have a
‘friend with benefits.’ She can decide to wait for the man who
respects, appreciates, and guards her soul! He who marries a wife
has her as a nest and home where he stays at a certain place, just
as birds do with their young in their nest.
"My dear, dear colleague! Men can’t do without women! Even if it
were possible for men to beget and bear children, they still
couldn’t do without women. My wife, my dearest Katie, is my rib!
With Christ as my model, I must be willing to forsake personal
pleasure for the good of my wife and children. No man should be
content to have those he loves exist in chaos; instead, all men
should follow the design for order, reason, and logic. That design
comes from God. This is most certainly true!"
Dr. Brunkamp’s chin lifted; her shoulders straightened. "We do have
our work cut out for us, don’t we? You might say we’re on the front
line of a battle for marriage, home, and family. The culture needs
us! We may be weary here among the wounded, but you’re right. There
is hope—for us, and for the hurting who are led to our door." She
paused to watch Dr. Luther, almost tenderly packing God’s Word
for Life (see page 24) into his briefcase. "Strange, isn’t it?"
Curious, he peered at his colleague over tiny rimmed glasses.
"What’s so strange?"
"How Truth changes one’s perspective," she said, pointing to his
Bible, "and even seems to energize! See you Monday!"
(This story is based on the author’s experiences at the Lighthouse
Center of Hope in Iowa Falls, Iowa; personal visits with two women
physicians; the book, "Unprotected," by Anonymous, M.D.; and "What
Luther Says," Concordia Publishing House, St. Louis. Interested in
hearing more of what Luther had to say about marriage, home, family,
the church, and culture? Check out the Bible study "Martin Luther: An
Example for Christians Who Want to Change Their Culture," available
as a free downloadable PDF from Lutherans For Life.)