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From
LifeDate - Spring 2006.
How has the Abortion Culture Affected Today’s
Youth?
by Grace Kern, Director of
Word of Hope
After 33
years, abortion has had a phenomenal impact on our youth. Are they
better off because of the U.S. Supreme Court Roe v. Wade
decision? Abortion advocates claim that it is all about
“pro-choice.” But sadly, many young women come to Word of Hope
saying they felt they had no choice. Their parents wanted them to
get an abortion, or their boyfriends pressured them to get an
abortion. Instead of freeing women from male exploitation, abortion
has made them more vulnerable—playing into the hands of men who seek
sex without marriage.
Columnist Jeff Jacoby discusses
abortion’s impact on relationships:
“It has corrupted romance and
sexuality . . . before Roe, the price of an unwanted
pregnancy could be terrifyingly high. That gave unmarried women a
powerful incentive to reserve themselves for men whom they planned
to marry; they knew to wait for marriage. But after Roe, an
unwanted pregnancy became little more than a nuisance. To undo it,
you had only to see an abortionist. So why be careful? Why hold
back? There was no longer a need to wait for that walk down the
aisle—or even for commitment . . . For men who wanted sex without
strings, without having to make promises, without having to go
through the rituals of romance, Roe was great. And if she has
a baby? Hey, that’s her problem. She could have gotten an abortion.”
Before Roe v. Wade, fear and
respect motivated people to make responsible sexual choices. But the
abortion culture has divided sex from procreation, and people
stopped being responsible for the consequences of their actions. Our
youth have grown up hearing phrases like “abortion on demand” and
“the right to abortion.” They have heard nice adults talk about
supporting politicians who will “protect” these “rights.” Such talk
has left many of these children confused, so deeply that they do not
even know they are confused, and morally dulled.
Everyday, more and more children are
poisoned by the media and our sex-crazed culture. Many of our young
people have lost their respect for God, family, and human life.
They’ve lost their own self-respect, and do not even know the
meaning of true love. The culture has filled their heads with the
idea that human life is not special, is not a life formed by God,
but is just a fertilized ovum that can be removed when it suits
them. The abortion culture forces young men to reject their role as
provider and protector, and encourages both men and women to act
against their instincts, destroying what they should most vehemently
defend—their own children.
The abortion
culture is forcing sex education programs in our schools whether
parents want it or not. These so-called “sex education” programs are
brainwashing our youth. They don’t talk to kids about chastity or
marriage. Rather, they tell them that they cannot control themselves
and so they must “protect” themselves from pregnancy. They are being
taught to use contraception for a false sense of “protection” and
ultimately to use abortion as a backup to all this selfish behavior.
How can
we protect our youth? How can we help pro-life youth share and
defend the life message?
College students and teens are on the
forefront of the abortion debate. More than 50 percent of the over
1.3 million annual abortions are performed on women college-age or
younger. Through organized groups and informal discussions in
classrooms, dorms, and libraries, pro-life students can bring the
message of life to their peers. When pro-life students talk to their
peers, it may represent the first time they have been exposed to our
“pro-life” perspective, or at least it may be the first time they
have heard our position without the filter of pro-abortion bias.
We need to equip pro-life students with
the knowledge, tools, and skills to effectively educate their peers
and to reach out to their friends who may be considering abortion.
This generation must be determined to
voice the truth of Life—to protect all human life from conception
until natural death, with no exceptions, no compromise, and no
apologies. We must stand on the truth that Jesus is our strength. We
cannot sit silently as another generation is killed.
“Through Him all things were made;
without Him nothing was made that has been made. In Him was life,
and that life was the light of men. The light shines in the
darkness, but the darkness has not understood it (John 1:3-5).”
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